I was going to title this post "New Year, New Me," but, beyond being cliche (hard to avoid--New Years might be THE most cliche holiday of them all!), I'm not really sure I can live up to that statement. No matter how many times I have reinvented my circumstances, the same old ghosts keep following me--disorganization, overzealous, too many big ideas, short on time and focus, still avoiding the gym--you know, those pesky resolutions that we all tend to make year after year and then abandon in the chaos of our real selves a month (or sooner) later.
Well, not to be even more cliche, but this year is going to be different! Does that mean that January hasn't brought a renewed spirit of getting our home and creative lives back in order? Of course not. I have spent the past week or so making and printing lists, tackling the loose ends of 2009, forging a plan for how to face 2010. My husband and I are laughing at ourselves for being so, well, typical, but we can't deny that, if nothing else, having a week of vacation as a family really gave us a rare chance to breathe and put some things back in perspective. We even had a family meeting.
I read a great post at one of my new favorite blogs, Simple Mom, that recommended establishing "goals" instead of "resolutions." Semantics aside, I appreciated what she was trying to express. Goals are concrete objectives that we can put down on paper, formulate a short- and long-term plan, and measure and tweak as we go.
So I welcome 2010 and celebrate the chance to regroup and reinvent, but with a realistically cautious outlook. I want to take the time to reexamine our family's values and hopes, and form a plan that will, in the end, work toward building a life that suits us, warts and all.
Over the next few weeks, it is my plan to blog more regularly about our vision for our creative family and lifestyle, and about the baby steps we are taking toward making those ideas take shape. I would love to hear about what your family mission is. What goals, big or small, do you have for 2010? Let's make it a year worth talking about!